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im so bored...with nothing to do but work tonight at brickyard from 10pm-3am and a nine hour shift at mcds tommorow....ahhhh i just want to relax!! |
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| tasty info... |
[Feb. 9th, 2006|06:30 am] |
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so i love how people go on and on about how they hate drama and they stay away from it and yadda yadda yet they are the centralized reason there is drama around them. and then they have to go and blame other people for their shitty lives like they are the only ones who have it hard. its time to grow up and become an adult ladies and gentleman. I love how recently as of the new year when people get mad at me for whatever reason they enjoy spreading lies about me and get this...other people who dont know me, actually believe them! i mean common you could atleast ask me before you go around spreadin more shyt about me. I love how people dont actually get to know the true genuine me because they believe the loads of crap that is spread, especially in the gay community. my favorite one being that "I have a bad habit of taking advantage of girlz" oh yeah thats so true you know i try and make a hobby out of it. ::rolls eyez:: when it comes to anyone being takin advantage of i am definately not a part of it. So really gurlz, both gay and str8, plus boyz; if yer gonna spread shyt about me, first off atleast make it believable crap, i mean common if you went up to someone who is one of my good friends and told them i have a bad habit of taking advantage of girlz they would most definately laugh in yer face. And if yer dumb enough to believe crap that is spread about me without askin me...then i pity you as much as i do the people spreading that shyt, if not more.
im having a busy day already, got class and im just going to bed at 637AM cuz of foal watch in the barn from 12midnight till 6am, got class 930-1030, 11-12:15, 2-4 and somewhere in there gotta fit a trip to walmart and a haircut before i leave for mutherz around 530!
gnyght ladiez & gentz |
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| a big lovey dovey update! |
[Jan. 29th, 2006|12:40 am] |
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| | calm | ] |
| [ | music |
| | "Play" David Banner | ] |
so i havnt left a message in here in a long ass time, not many people comment on my crap so i always forget i have it. hahaha...ne wayz so i am taking some pretty good classes, i only hate one teacher but thats because he hates homosexuals and he blantantly makes that clear which pisses me off even more. whenever he mentions homosexuality he makes comments under his breath like we arnt going to hear him in a huge lecture hall that echos. let me tell you i will be showing up to his class pimped out in my diversity t-shirt and rainbow accessories on tuesday. and he can go fuck himself if he says one wrong thing i will flip cuz ive sat through 4 classes of nasty muttering so far... ummmmmmmmmmmmmmm I am performing in the King Of Hearts Pageant on February 9th and im excited! I dont have a girlfriend at the moment but I have a girl i like right now, shes cute, we'll see what happens... no names mentioned cuz im not putting a curse on it! Eric however has a boyfriend now that i like very much!!! He thinks im cute so he is a keeper hehehe, i return the comment! ::hugz!:: So for now im at college, working at mcd's, djing for hiphop night on friday nights, and maintaining my RA job along with school work. I have lots to do and im always busy! I actually like it! So thats pretty much it for now but ill try and remember to update!!! |
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[Dec. 10th, 2005|04:01 am] |
| [ | BiPolar Feeling Of The Day |
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| [ | music |
| | "Light My Candle" Rent Soundtrack | ] |
Name: katharine mary rinallo
DOB: 11-28-86
Born: rochester, ny
Eyes: brown
Hair: dirty blonde (colored reddish/brown)
Height: 5'10
Shoe size: 11-12
Nick names: Kt-Dawg, Kitty Kat, Kaydels,Ravioli...etc...
Hobbies: Horseback Riding, Performing @ Club Muthers, Just Plain Chillun w/ friendz
[What’s your favorite...]
Animal: horse
Car: Toyota Tacoma...mmmmm trucks.....
Movie: Girl interrupted
Band/Singer: all
Movie Star: angelina joile
Instrument: guitar/drums
Beverage: #13 on the sandella's smoothies list
Desert: WEGMANS-cherry cheesecake
Piece of clothing: Wife beaters & Gym Shorts
Holiday: thanksgiving
Store: pac sun/hottopic
CD: mixes
[Have You Ever...]
Driven a car: yes
Gotten drunk: yes
Smoked Weed: never smoked...second hand high counts tho
Popped Pills: once by accident i thought it was my prescription pill...turns out not so much lol
Shot up: no
Snorted: no
Had Sex: lesbian sex...well, depends on what your definition is of lesbian sex...
Gone Out Of State: yes
Out Of Country: yes
Ate Something weird: cow kidney pie in england....ewww i so spit that shit out
Gotten hit by a car: yes but it was going real slow backwards
Got attacked by a dog: every day i work...atleast 2wice if not 3 times...
[Which is better...]
Coke or pepsi: pepsi
Cake or icecream: ice cream
Chocolate or vanilla: vanilla
Hot or cold: hot
Light or dark: light
Dressed or undressed: undressed
Soft or hard: soft
Chocolate milk or hot chocolate: hot chocolate
Milk or chocolate milk: dont drink milk
Winter or Summer: summer
Tea or coffee: tea
drama/action/comedy/horror: horror/comedy
Cats or dogs: dogs....although i love my son (kitty kitty kitty)
Ocean or pool: ocean
Single or taken: SiNgLe |
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[Dec. 10th, 2005|03:48 am] |
| [ | BiPolar Feeling Of The Day |
| | amused | ] |
| [ | music |
| | "Everytime we touch" cascades | ] |
in my previous journal entry i wrote to all my friends saying thank you for everything, well two people have been removed as requested by them through other people....funny thing is they say they dont care what i have to say about anything, & i never even gave them the link to my livejournal...the only way they could have seen the entry was if they were curious enough to click on the link in my aim profile and see what i might have written lately. so all in all they contradict themselves saying they dont care what i have to say about anything, yet by clicking in my profile on the link to my livejournal...they just further prove themselves wrong. hahaha this is so amusing to me....::shakes head:: anyways its xmas coming up soon, its time to say "fuck this" and put all the past in the past & go forth into the future.
ta for now...
<3kt |
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| not too much to say except..hey...no day but today... |
[Dec. 8th, 2005|02:16 am] |
| [ | BiPolar Feeling Of The Day |
| | grateful | ] |
| [ | music |
| | "La Vie Boheme" Rent Soundtrack | ] |
i am a big fuckin loser just so we are all aware i wish i could rewind all the way into the end of last semester just so i could replay everything that happened up until this point. But seeing as i can't, i must force myself to live in the now and only hope to prevent myself from making the same errors in the future. can i just tell you how thankful i am for the friends that have stuck by me and then new friends whom i love dearly? i just want to point out a few thank yous right here and right now even though some of these people might not have livejournal.
Eric Askloff you are my angel my savior my best friend for life. Thank you so much for standing by me through the good the bad and the ugly, thats what true friends are all about.
Michael A- thank you, for basically being you. You are such a great friend thank you for comforting me through my bad times, its always good to know that you are there for me and vice versa.
Kyle- Kyle fuck u for going so far away off to college, but thank you for making life that much more interesting when you are around. I love you dearly.
Bobbie Sue- thank you for being a great friend, and my sanity... cant wait to come home for break and catch up on all the good details of your life! OoOOo ;-)
Sam Goodson (everyone at muthers knows her as EROS!)- Sam, this past month has been great getting to know you, I want to thank you for listening to me, for taking the time to actually get to know me, and being a really good friend. I enjoy hanging out with you a lot and i hope we will remain friends for many years to come, you know i've always got yer back. P.S. my MOM thought you were a nice person....HUGE compliment let me tell you lol.
Katie M (yes u are the only katie m i know)- I fucking love you girl, thank you so much for being there for me i dont think i ever thank you enough, if anything ever happened to you i would not know what to do with myself.
Amy-Meg-K-Dogg~>u guys are fun to hang around there is definately never a dull moment and i love u guys for that.
Dina Lynn Marie Marrocco- This summer was crazy, it was up it was down but it was a great time overall. I'm extremely sorry for hurting you in any way shape or form but i just needed to be by myself for a while and rethink things and i honestly have not been a very happy person this semester at college, and i think my depression had affected me in many ways. I hope we can keep our promise to be friends but if not then i completely understand.
My Geneva Gurlz- Mooch & Kathy ~~~> haha i fuckin love u guys i cant believe we stayed up until 4am!!! kathy, you are a prom queen, you should be getting yer beauty sleep lol. lets play a game of pool with a hockey stick! ode to brilliant ideas...
I have many more people to thank but know i thank all my friends for being there for me you all know who you are and you know i love you guys with all of my heart! |
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[Nov. 24th, 2005|09:02 pm] |
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im irritated...and that is all... |
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| holler... |
[Nov. 1st, 2005|06:19 am] |
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my new hair cut looks good- thats a plus...i might drive home thursday by myself to go to muthers (11/3) regardless of whether or not i perform...i just need to be out and about...do a little dance, make a little love...you know ;-) oh and i gotta love explaining lesbian sex to my friend dom last week best part of my week. |
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| id run away from this bitch and neva come back if i could... |
[Oct. 23rd, 2005|04:13 am] |
| [ | BiPolar Feeling Of The Day |
| |  depressed | ] |
| [ | music |
| | "crawling in the dark" hoobastank | ] |
i have been stressed to the last nerve lately..i feel very lonely and depressed lately, confused and all. like a lot of things have changed and i dont like the way they have changed...taking this RA job has taken such a toll on my sanity its unbelievable. Im really done trying to be everyones friend because ive learned that 80 percent of the people i thought were my friends, arnt. they are aquaintances if that. To be a friend it means i shouldnt have to be like an extra burden or a last minute invite to dinner. no im not going along with that shit ne more. if you really are my friend you would invite me to hang out with you, you would invite me to eat ahead of time, rather then when your walking out the door. Im done begging people to hang out with me, and if that means being by myself then so be it, honestly i'd rather drive 2 1/2 hours to be with people who really do care about me, then trying to be everyones friend here when they dont really think two shits about me. Sometimes the only way i feel i can get people to really understand how hard they are hurting me is by ignoring them...and then when i ignore people, they still get mad at me. so i never win. i guess this is a lot about my friends....because i used to try so hard to get everyone to love me and like me, that i lose sight of how to separate aquaintances with real friends. sometimes i feel like i just want to get away from college for a few months and then come back but it still wouldnt be the same, it would only be prolonging the same crap over and over. im sure theres more i could rant about but thats all i feel like typing right now... |
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| i've come so far... |
[Oct. 22nd, 2005|02:06 am] |
Dear Grandma, Grandpa, & my sister Tara-
I wish you could see me now, im 18 years old and a sophomore in college. I wish you could have lived to see me graduate high school. I can't believe you guys have been gone for so long, it seems like just yesterday you were pushing me on the tire swing at the old house on Mill Road (gma and gpa) and i was holding your hand and singing songs to you (tara). Grandpa, even though you didnt remember who i was near the end, I know you loved me and i really wish you were here to see me all grown up, ive become so much like you, the proud stubborn german side of me. Grandma, you were such a blessing to have in my life, your cat misty, when im home, she sleeps with me every night, i know you are with her, she thinks she is the princess of the house. Tara, even though you never got to see me, i know you knew i was your sister, for the 14 years of my life you were with us, you always smiled when you heard my voice, I miss singing to you and you smiling. I am aspiring to be a therapeutic riding instructor so i can combine my passion for working with people with disabilities with my love for horses. I've been thinking about you guys a lot lately. I never got to tell you guys that im a lesbian but i know you would have loved me regardless. You would be so proud of me & whom i've become over these past few years. I miss u with all of my heart...
Love Always,
Your Granddaughter & Sister
~Katie |
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| soooo |
[Oct. 14th, 2005|01:15 am] |
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so apparently the crazy bitch who has been fuckin pissin me off my floor wants to make amens...or so my friend katie tells me...she tells me shes scared to talk to me... bitch u have every right to be afraid to talk to me because until the shit you stole off my door is brought back and placed in my hand..then that will be telling me you want to make amens...and MAYBE ill consider it...but she should be fuckin scared to come up to me... |
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| awwww |
[Oct. 2nd, 2005|02:56 am] |
| [ | BiPolar Feeling Of The Day |
| |  crazy | ] |
this is ken...ken works at our cafe on campus and is a culinary student...ken liked me until he found out i was gay and then he was sad...but ken is still cute...yey for friends like ken...
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[Sep. 19th, 2005|02:11 am] |
| [ | BiPolar Feeling Of The Day |
| | disappointed | ] |
journals are going private again. just so you all know. |
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| cuz im bored... |
[Sep. 18th, 2005|06:15 am] |
| [ | BiPolar Feeling Of The Day |
| |  lethargic | ] |
What you gon’ do with all that junk?
All that junk inside your trunk?
I’ma get, get, get, get, you drunk,
Get you love drunk off my hump.
My hump, my hump, my hump, my hump, my hump,
My hump, my hump, my hump, my lovely little lumps. (Check it out)
I drive these brothers crazy,
I do it on the daily,
They treat me really nicely,
They buy me all these ice-ys.
Dolce & Gabbana,
Fendi and then Donna
Karan, they be sharin’
All their money got me wearin’
Fly gearrr but I ain’t askin,
They say they love my ass ‘n,
Seven Jeans, True Religion's,
I say no, but they keep givin’
So I keep on takin’
And no I ain’t taken
We can keep on datin’
I keep on demonstrating.
My love, my love, my love, my love
You love my lady lumps,
My hump, my hump, my hump,
My humps they got u,
She’s got me spending.
(Oh) Spendin’ all your money on me and spending time on me.
She’s got me spendin’.
(Oh) Spendin’ all your money on me, on me, on me
What you gon’ do with all that junk?
All that junk inside that trunk?
I’ma get, get, get, get, you drunk,
Get you love drunk off my hump.
What u gon’ do with all that ass?
All that ass inside them jeans?
I’m a make, make, make, make you scream
Make u scream, make you scream.
Cos of my hump, my hump, my hump, my hump.
My hump, my hump, my hump, my lovely lady lumps. (Check it out)
I met a girl down at the disco.
She said hey, hey, hey yea let’s go.
I could be your baby, you can be my honey
Lets spend time not money.
I mix your milk wit my cocoa puff,
Milky, milky cocoa,
Mix your milk with my cocoa puff, milky, milky riiiiiiight.
They say I’m really sexy,
The boys they wanna sex me.
They always standing next to me,
Always dancing next to me,
Tryin’ a feel my hump, hump.
Lookin’ at my lump, lump.
U can look but you can’t touch it,
If u touch it I’ma start some drama,
You don’t want no drama,
No, no drama, no, no, no, no drama
So don’t pull on my hand boy,
You ain’t my man, boy,
I’m just tryn’a dance boy,
And move my hump.
My hump, my hump, my hump, my hump,
My hump, my hump, my hump, my hump, my hump, my hump.
My lovely lady lumps [x3]
In the back and in the front.
My lovin’ got u,
She’s got me spendin’.
(Oh) Spendin’ all your money on me and spending time on me.
She’s got me spendin’.
(Oh) Spendin’ all your money on me, on me, on me.
What you gon’ do with all that junk?
All that junk inside that trunk?
I’ma get, get, get, get you drunk,
Get you love drunk off my hump.
What you gon’ do with all that ass?
All that ass inside them jeans?
I’ma make, make, make, make you scream
Make you scream, make you scream.
What you gon do with all that junk?
All that junk inside that trunk?
I’ma get, get, get, get you drunk,
Get you love drunk off this hump.
What you gon’ do wit all that breast?
All that breast inside that shirt?
I’ma make, make, make, make you work
Make you work, work, make you work.
She’s got me spendin’.
Spendin all your money on me and spendin’ time on me
She’s got me spendin’.
Spendin’ all your money on me, on me, on me. |
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[Sep. 17th, 2005|04:15 am] |
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tylenol pm is evil. end of story. |
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[Sep. 14th, 2005|01:10 pm] |
| [ | BiPolar Feeling Of The Day |
| | busy | ] |
im moving downstairs to main A floor to be their new RA. just thought i'd post something new so there it is. not because i hate my floor tho its cuz im taking one for the team and the only one that said they would move. |
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| i feel weird.. |
[Sep. 9th, 2005|03:30 am] |
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i feel distant from so many people in my life right now..it sucks because i have so many cool people and friends here at college and i just...i dunno i feel way distant from others...i think thats why ive been depressed all week. |
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[Sep. 8th, 2005|01:07 am] |
| [ | BiPolar Feeling Of The Day |
| |  aggravated | ] |
ok in correspondence to my last post...if you guys want to call me and bash me and bash me on my livejournal...lose my number and my live journal link because i dont need that shit thats childish. You know you all seem to love to bash me for ignoring you guys and you know the only reason i havnt put forth the effort is because to me i see no effort coming from you guys. and i dont feel the need anymore to put myself out there and to go the extra mile to hang out with people like i used too because ive realized that i only look like a desperate asshole when i do that and its not neccessary. so you guys feel the need to call me and complain or bash me on my lj..then you guys need to hear it back...
ben- the way you handled calling me and basically telling me what a horrible job i do at being a friend, was immaturely handled. i dont need to be called and bitched out like that when you arnt even listening to a word im saying so thats why i hung up. because i dont need it. The times we all tried to hang out this summer, we had legit excuses to not being able to hang out like work and such. and you know what this whole bullshit with the you could have hung out with us when you were doing drag stuff is bullshit. When i was having my first performance i was really excited about it and felicia's attitude towards it brought me down and so i went off and did it as my own thing. Because i was all excited like yey im doing this and it just seemed in her voice and the way she acted about it was all like she didnt approve of it sort of speak. So you know what i went off with eric and rachel and mike and chad and them once a fuckin week to the gay club. You guys dont even know the 1/2 of the shit that went down this summer at my house, i know everyone has problems and all but you know, you fuckin dont take it in to prospective that something might be going on where i just wanted to keep to myself every other day. and you know people grow apart, ben you have changed so much since i knew you in high school im not sure what to think i dont know who you are any more all i hear about is you drinking and this and that and thats not the ben i knew in highschool and im not sure how to handle it.
Felicia- Its the same as all the above. Im sorry about the ren fest this summer but you know my mom told me like a week before we were suppose to go that i couldnt go because i didnt have money and you all made it seem like it was because dina couldnt go and it wasnt my fault that you guys didnt have enough cars because you know you didnt take it into prospective anyway that my car would have been full and you still would have been screwed because i had a car load of people going with me already. And the thing that really erked me was the fact that when you invited me to your graduation party you invited me barely a week in advance and i know that you did the same to some other people but im sorry i had plans set up months in advance that day with 30 + people to go to the pride parade and had you told me further in advance i would have come for a lot longer but you know i went for the 1/2 hour i could and the first thing you did when i got there was say hi and then ignore me so you know i took that as fine you dont want to talk to me after not seeing me for awhile, then you know i really dont wanna be here or make the effort anymore. and frankly, to put it out there bluntly, its not that i dont like pat, but everytime you'd wanna hang out, he'd be there. And every time he would do something to piss you off and you would not be happy you'd be miserable and you know i didnt want to see that anymore. my MOM even said you act miserable around him. I just didnt want to be around that anymore when you know if you are unhappy you can change it.
Julie- I don't know if you read my LJ at all but you may say i'm acting childish...look at what your doing. and this is the last time im going to say aleshas name between us because i know you are only going to get mad at her and its not her fault because i know things are cool between you and her NOW. You would always tell me how pissed you were because she would always be hanging out with amanda and not hang out with you alone...well im sorry but you are doing the exact same thing you said you wouldn't do. im not saying i dont like ryan or kayla, but you are doing the exact same thing with them that you didnt like alesha doing with amanda. they are attached at your side or you are always hanging out with them. and thats why practicum is no excuse and the only reason you may be tired for it is because you leave away messages up saying your over at ryans and you know what i have no sympathy for you being tired after practicum and "not being able to hang out with your friends" cuz some how you always find time for ryan or kayla as clearly stated in your away messages. and you know im sick of watching people do the same thing to their friends that they said they'd never do. I dont appreciate it. and im really not fond of the fact that it feels like you're treating me like im stupid because you know that i have 2 sn's on aim one for my friends and one for my mother, i know i told you about that cuz i saw both on your bl at one point. So dont block me and treat me like im an idiot and i dont know that you have me blocked. im not fucking retarded. |
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| im bored with nothing better to update you on.. |
[Sep. 7th, 2005|02:06 am] |
Name: katharine mary rinallo
DOB: 11-28-86
Born: rochester, ny
Eyes: brown
Hair: dirty blonde
Height: 5'10
Shoe size: 11-12
Nick names: luffa, kt dawg, rolo
Hobbies: dancing/performing at muthers/going to waterworks/horseback riding/playing with cutesy lil animals
[What’s your favorite...]
Animal: horse
Car: Toyota Tacoma...any kind of hawt truck with an extended cab gets me giggly!
Movie: Girl interrupted
Band/Singer: all
Movie Star: angelina joile
Instrument: guitar/drums
Beverage: sandella's smoothies
Desert: cherry cheesecake
Piece of clothing: my wife beaters are comfortable!
Holiday: thanksgiving
Store: pac sun/hottopic
CD: my mixes
[Have You Ever...]
Driven a car: yes
Gotten drunk: yes
Smoked Weed: second hand smoke
Popped Pills: once by accident i thought it was my prescription pill...turns out not so much lol
Shot up: no
Snorted: no
Had Sex: no
Gone Out Of State: yes
Out Of Country: yes
Ate Something weird: cow kidney pie in england....ewww i so spit that shit out
Gotten hit by a car: yes but it was going real slow backwards
Got attacked by a dog: every day i work at the vet hospital...and outside of the vet hospital- i got bit by my friends dog under the eye once..it was bad
[Which is better...]
Coke or pepsi: pepsi
Cake or icecream: ice cream
Chocolate or vanilla: vanilla
Hot or cold: hot
Light or dark: light
Dressed or undressed: undressed
Soft or hard: soft
Chocolate milk or hot chocolate: hot chocolate
Milk or chocolate milk: dont drink milk
Winter or Summer: summer
Tea or coffee: dont drink either
drama/action/comedy/horror: horror/comedy
Cats or dogs: dogs....although i love my son (kitty kitty kitty)
Ocean or pool: ocean
Single or taken: taken <d3
With or without icecube: with
Milk/dark/or white chocolate: milk or white
Rock/ska/punk/rap/r&b/alternative/techno/swing: all
Nite or day: nite
Bunk bed or water bed: bunk bed
Lites on or off: on
Sweet or sour: sweet
[Last time you...]
Cried: today
Smiled: today
Laughed: today
Laughed until u cried: yesterday
Swore: today
Hit something: today
Got mad: yesterday
Got excited: today
[Do you...]
Have any pets: [dogs]-maxine & parker [cats]- maurice-zeus-& misty
Have a girlfriend: yes
Have a boyfriend: not in the past 4 years
Have a best friend: yes
Love anybody: yes
Like anybody: of course
Hate anybody: only 2 people in this world do i hate with a passion
Like the taste of alcohol: depends- beer -hell no taste like assness...liquour-heck ya! im a cosmo/appletini girl!
Have any secrets: a lot..thats why they are secrets lol
Believe in ghosts: yes i do
Collect anything: yes
Have any bad habits: yes
Have any piercings: yes 2 soon to be 3 by xmas (wanna get a new cartilage piercing)
Have any tattoos: never ever ever
Have any fetish's: yes...i wont lie i do...
[Current...]
Mood: energetic
Music: ying yang twins - whisper song
Annoyance: ummm a few things to be unmentioned
Thought: i should be sleeping
Book: american sign language dictionary
Refreshment: kool aid- you cant beat 6 cheap drinks for 97 cents!
Food: a cheap walmart knock off of campbell's chicken and stars soup
Worry: a few things...
[Last Person you/who...]
Talked to: mackenzie
You touched: panda
Said i love you to: erin- friends wise dina-girlfriend wise
Made laugh: carina
Hugged: panda
Kissed: dina
Broke your heart: ----blank
Missed: dina/eric/and a few others
[Who do you want to...]
Talk to: eric/dina
See: dina
Kiss: dina
Have sex with: not rdy i dont think but if i was to- dina
Have ice cream with: bobbie sue!
Watch a movie with: katie and carina
Marry: my dina lynn
Have kids with: i want little dina babies hehehe juuuuust kidding!!!
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